Sunday 22 December 2013

PROGRESS CHECK


K and I have been taking things slowly and not going out and about in the same way as before since it takes us quite a while to get going each morning and using a walking frame to get everywhere is surprisingly tiring - K is weary by the end of the day. The weather has been mixed; some days with dark clouds and torrential rain and other days where the sky is blue and the sun is warm. Most mornings it feels very cold when we get up, without central heating in a dampish atmosphere and then having put on layers of warm clothes we emerge outside to hang washing or fetch wood and realise that it is much warmer out of doors.

The Physiotherapist came on Friday and put Kimon through his paces – he was exhausted. On Sunday, we plan to go out for the day to a village Christmas Fair in Varan Episkopi which will be a nice outing if the weather stays fine.



The patient is doing OK and although there is still no feeling in his lower left leg, he seems to be gaining strength and balance in his other limbs and has ventured up and down stairs to the terrace this week and, accompanied by visiting friends, zimmered his way down to the little store on Saturday to buy the bread and say hello to folk. This is good and makes him feel more normal. Incidentally, a zimmer frame in Greece is called a pee due to its shape π (think of Pi-R-squared). We have had some interesting muddles in the ensuing confusion about what healthcare professionals are actually talking about – especially in the context of Urology.



We are attempting to eat lots of cancer busting foods (everyone gives us their input on this) … cauliflower with lots of turmeric, cinnamon with lots of honey, red and orange fruit and vegetables (makes fabulous winter soups) lots of cooked tomatoes, pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, walnuts, apricots (or ache-ri-pots, as our grandson calls them), frittata (with lots of above mentioned veg), carrot and ginger soup, red pepper soup and a box of sachets + two pots of vitamins from the pharmacy to try and build up K's strength a bit. All the doctors at the hospital wanted Kimon to eat loads of beef (not really sure about this) while my German friend advocates plenty of milk combined with grain materials. It is keeping me busy researching on the internet and cooking in the kitchen!



I gained a nursing proficiency badge on Friday by performing my first injection – which is a miracle indeed considering I shrank from removing so much as a splinter when my children were small. Compression sores still take a lot of attention and are doubly compounded by a compression stocking around the ankle area. So much of the time I am to-ing and fro-ing between indications and counter-indications and wondering how to balance everything out in a way that doesn't wear us both to a frazzle in the process. Putting on No. 2 compression stockings has to be my gym work out – such a struggle - and is totally lethal if you have pain in your thumb joints!

K goes for hormone injection no. 3 on Monday 23 December. These normally cause a lot of pain for two weeks after. I need to write a list of questions for the Doctor and get my instructions for the next month while we are there. In the midst of translations backwards and forwards, it easy to forget what we wanted to know.

Liz, our kindly nurse friend, (aka Busy Lizzy) was happy to have Christmas at her house and – somehow we will be nine in total but all contributing to the meal, one way or another. We will look forward to it. Getting a turkey from town to Skepasti is will be a bit like a game of Netball and the logistics of fitting three people, a turkey and a zimmer frame into a small car, meeting up with Anna who is doing the turkey collection, a visit to the Urologist, last minute shopping and liaising over Brussels sprouts quite puts my head in a spin.




We are missing all our folk and friends in the UK and wish you all a very happy Christmas and healthy New Year!                                               Καλά Χριστούγεννα και το Νέο Έτος

Tuesday 10 December 2013

DECEMBER DOINGS



The weather is bright and cold and there is the most beautiful layer of white snow and ice on the mountain tops and we are needing to think about wearing extra layers at night to keep from getting chilled.

Things have been a bit quiet on the blog front since we returned from hospital in mid November. Principally because it has fallen to me to be master and mistress of the house! Therefore I have been hauling logs, sweeping grates, cooking appetising and protein rich meals and helping the invalid to get stronger and more mobile along with my usual household duties.



Kathi mera, kalithera – which means every day a little better. K's progress has been very good, but he still has a problem leg which makes walking any distance slow and problematic, but he is trying hard and getting as fit as we can manage. We've had a full selection of medical appointments in the last week or two – the Urologist for the horrid injection, a Neurologist to look at the problem leg and DVT, the local clinic to see if we can find a doctor in the middle of all these specialists who can identify what is being prescribed and avoid clashes, the lab to get PSA blood tests and results in readiness for the hospital visit today to see all the Urology Department Professor and Doctors.

The weather was quite sunny with a few white clouds as we bumbled round the mountains towards Heraklion. The route, which would once have had me cringing with trepidation now seems relatively easy and I nonchalantly beetled to the hospital via all the short cuts I have picked up in recent months. We first saw the Professor. We handed over the PSA reading which was over 40 last August, was 10 after the operation and is now 1.44. We thought that this was very good indeed but the Professor did not like it and wanted it to be 0! Well, we had done everything possible in our control – no ciggies, no booze and lots of healthy food, exercise and rest. No patient could have done more and going out in company has not been easy from any point of view. However, it has improved. The considered opinion of the clinic (which seemed to be every doctor in the department sitting round a board table) was that Kimon needed to get stronger before commencing radiotherapy. So we do not have to go back until March when they will reconsider. In the meantime, I have to feed him up and try to get more weight on him!

Christmas Tree and Crib in the Urology Department


After this appointment, we had to go to the Ultrasound Department for a “Triplex”. K & I had no idea what it was, but while Kimon had this done, I was posted to the Outpatient Reception with his medical book and appointment paper to queue for a queue. The numbered ticket machines which designated your turn in the queue did not switch on until 3.00 p.m. At 3.00 p.m. a Rugby Scrum of 60 people assembled round the ticket machines amid lots of people gesticulating and shouting and pushing in. I eventually got a ticket and waited for the windows to open. There were eight windows to deal with appointments, all closed and nobody was working. At 3.15, two windows opened and there was a rush towards them. I waited my ticketed turn and the lady did something on the computer, gave me another sheet of paper which I took back to Ultrasound Reception. This lady had a long discussion with her colleague and asked us to wait for an hour for the results. As we did not know what the Triplex was, had not requested it, did not know who wanted it and needed to get back round the mountains before dark, we quietly left. Perhaps they can forward the results to the Doctor who knows what it means and had requested this information. We will see.



On arrival, we could hardly get to the front door as Nikos, our neighbour, had delivered the second consignment of wood for our log burner – just in time before the weather turns nasty again.




Our friends locally have continued to be brilliant, helpful and encouraged me to get out for respite once a week to our “Make” sessions in Rethymnon where we knit, crochet, sew, chat and drink mountain tea or hot coffee. Our offerings will be delivered to the Red Cross next week in time for Christmas. Kala Christouyenna! X x x