Sunday, 11 October 2015

'ERE THE WINTER STORMS BEGIN ...




Greetings from your foreign correspondent. Back from the confines of hospital and creeping round the house a little gingerly since the wearing of loose pyjamas seems the best choice right now. All went well. My pesky gall bladder is on its way to Athens for Histology and whomsoever the recipient is can be confident that they are very welcome to it. I have three minor incisions, some prickly stitches and an allergy to the wound dressings used by the hospital, but we smartly changed these and I am trying various combinations of alcohol (topical!) and anaesthetic creams to cool down the itch until I can consult Niko at the Pharmacy on Monday.

I had an interesting time in hospital, sharing a room with another lady who had had her spleen removed (horrid op) but was making a good recovery. As she had a constant stream of visitors – young and old – bringing flowers, cakes, home made goodies and so on all day long, it was lovely to see how the extended family worked, Cretan style. She was looked after fabulously by her sister (I recognised her complete exhaustion) during the night and a changing pattern of friends by day. The two sisters both had a trio of gorgeous looking young sons with curly black hair, bushy beards and flashing eyes. (Coor!) When one of them explained in perfect English that my giddiness was due to low blood pressure, I asked him where he had acquired perfect English. He said that he had been at University in Birmingham for four years.



They were a wonderful family but the best thing to observe was hair wash day. If anyone remembers the dressing of the bride scene from My Big Fat Greek Wedding, this evening had all the lovely moments of communal fiesta! First of all, sister arrived with two large bin bags and a washing up bowl with another four people. I watched intrigued to see what would happen, since my night carer had used large bin bags to wrap round my middle and got me to lean forward over the shower, but this variation was much more fun. One bin bag was placed inside another and their bases rested in a bowl on the floor. The patient was helped to lie down on her bed top to toe with her head hanging from underneath the bed rail and her hair into the open bag. A young lady (think she was a proper hairdresser) armed herself with shampoo and the room began to smell of nice perfume as they worked. About three older ladies trouped backwards and forwards from the bathroom with large water bottles of hot water from the bathroom while they washed, massaged and rinsed while the water gathered into the ballooning bin bags. It worked well. After the shampoo, the hairdresser got out her hairdryer and brushes to start styling for the lady now seated. The older ladies in the group dug about in shopping bags and produced freshly washed and ironed sheets and set about stripping and remaking the bed. I can't think of anything nicer or more healing than all these acts of kindness and teamwork. The whole experience certainly beat day-time telly into a cocked hat as they danced and joked around each other. It was clear that this lady was a very special person with a benign army of friends and family - she had visitors young and old who all greeted me and wished me perastika too.  I hope she gets well very soon.



My plan for finding someone to help clean the house fell flat a bit because we were given the details of a nice young lady called Lena, but sadly her mother-in-law died the Saturday morning we were supposed to meet and greet her, so it all had to wait another week and I was limping about the kitchen looking for mops, sponges and bottles of bleach with much less energy than the week before. Anyway, Lena seems lovely and has agreed to come twice per week and we will see whether she likes us and we get on with her to make things permanent.  We are hopeful.



Then Rik the Builder, who had been consulted about replacing one of the upstairs windows way back in the summer managed to get the manufacturers to put it together, also to arrive at the weekend and I could see that my recovery period was going to be anything but peaceful. As luck would have it, one of the sheets of glass got dropped and a corner broke, so it has delayed the installation another few days, for which we are rather grateful. We had also discussed finishing the painting the roof and outside of the house – since I was out of action – with a friend in the village and after three reminders, he eventually turned up to start this morning! This will be good and we can be reassured that we are ship-shape for winter without me having to shimmy up the ladder and skate about on the roof with rollers on poles this time around!


The skies are very grey this morning with a hot wind from the south. Most of our chums are away in Matala at an archaeological weekend to explore new sites down south. I am sorry to miss so many treats but seem to be living under a long period of force majeur these days! Then other friends from England phoned to say they were on holiday near Rethymnon this week and I am turning over in my mind whether I feel strong enough to drive all the way there only a few days after surgery. The wound site is OK, but my eye-sight is still whirring a bit after the anaesthetic and the strength of the winds is increasing all the time.  Not a good time to be out and about, sadly.

I still have one procedure to go as they remove the stent from the common bile duct (hopefully) by gastroendoscopy and after this I hope that things will be back to normal, whatever that means! In the meantime, the winds are beginning to howl and I think the roof paint has gone on, just in the nick of time.


Adieu x

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